Femininity is like a flower that unfolds differently within every woman. This is what makes each of us and our journeys so unique. It can be discovered (or rediscovered) at any stage of life. Finding a delicate balance between strength and softness at the same time allows your inner flower to bloom in unexpectedly beautiful ways. In this post I will give tips on how to become feminine by guiding you through the 7 stages of unfolding your femininity and nurturing it along the way.
- Awareness of feminine energy: planted seed
Becoming aware of your identity as a woman is where your femininity begins. It is like a planted little seed that is in the ground just as your desire for inner growth and maturity begins to awaken. Your feminine energy will come naturally and you definitely will feel it. It might seem a bit slow in the beginning, but when you discover yourself everything will make perfect sense.
- Self discovery: still in the soil
Discovering your personality, values and emotional needs is the foundation of your feminine growth. Learning what makes you feel confident and unique nurtures the little seed and helps it grow stronger.
When you are fully aware of who you are and what you need you might compare yourself to other women. This is not entirely harmful, just don’t forget that it is not a race and every unfolding is different. Some stages might feel easier and some more difficult, but this is the beauty of changes that have already begun in you and continue to grow.
- Healing and Inner work: growing roots
Healing from past experiences is a crucial part of the process. Once you are able to forgive and release everything that once hurt you, you can grow your roots to stand strong where you aim to be. This is the inner work within you which will lead to beautiful blooms later. However, don’t rush the stages, good things always take time and instead of hurrying the process try to enjoy it, even if the changes are small at first.
- Small external changes: the sprout
This is a gentle, but already noticeable change. You are becoming more intentional about your habits and routines. Also, you will see softer changes in your communication towards others and yourself too.
Experimenting with your style and building a new self-care routine begins to express your femininity even more. Other people will notice it too, but don’t let them make you question yourself or discourage you when you know what feels right in your heart. Your growing leaves will give you the right balance that you need.
- Finding emotional balance: growing leaves
Mastering the art of finding balance between strength and softness improves your confidence in your unfolding femininity. When you become comfortable with your own presence you are developing a long-lasting calmness.
The improvement of your emotional intelligence will bring changes in every relationship you have. Especially in the one with yourself. It will strengthen your confidence which will be noticeable shortly after. The appearance of the first bud of your femininity is the sign that your inner beauty starts to glow.
- Standing straight: the bud
Your feminine energy begins to feel effortless. You have a stronger sense of identity, you know what you want exactly. Your standards and boundaries are clear and your surroundings respect them. At this unique level of unfolding where everything feels easy, you only have to enjoy it. It may seem that the way was long, but totally worth it when you see yourself glow from the inside out.
- Alignment and radiance: blooming
Finally, the most beautiful part of your journey is already here. When you reach the stage of blooming your inner and outer femininity align. You understand that it was worth the wait and all the efforts that you made during the way.
Confidence, grace and emotional security work together. You are at peace with yourself and others. Your relationships are healthier and more intentional. From this stage forward, you will naturally desire continuous growth.
Never forget, that femininity is not a final destination, but an ongoing process. Just like flowers, femininity blooms in different seasons. It can be rediscovered many times throughout the different stages of your life. Which stage of unfolding femininity resonated with you the most?
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